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| cindy11326 | Date: Friday, 2009-04-03, 7:23 Am | Message # 1 |
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| The thing is, I used to like this guy for about 6 years. (With other crushes between that time period.)
When I found out he liked me back, I immediately hated him. I don't know why. But after that his best friend started liking me. And it was really awkward.
And after that, another guy in one of my classes started flirting with me. Plus, one former crush of mine who I hung out with after my basketball practices confessed to me through a friend before the summer ended.
Then one day, I said "Hey! __ Come over here! I wanna show you something!" Outside. The first guy who I liked for 6 years pulled him aside and said something to him. Then they both walked away.
I didn't like him back after I saw that. I started hanging out with some other guy friends I knew.
They were all 'best friends'.
We all hung out for 3 summers straight and just hung out at school.
Then two of them (which I sorta liked), started talk to me more.
But I don't know who they like, etc.
Remember the first guy? Well, as soon as he saw how I hung out with the other group of people (I was the only girl), he just 'joined' in.
Ugh. My dilemma is, How can I get this guy to leave me alone?
He won't stop staring at me.
He drives my other guy friends away.
He even flirts with my bestfriends trying to make me jealous. (I have proof)
He's telling everyone how much he 'loves/likes' me.
Ugh. I just had to get that all out.
Reply if you can please.
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| RockerPrincess | Date: Friday, 2009-04-03, 3:01 PM | Message # 2 |
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| If me, I would go and confront him. Tell him to go away and tell him straight that you're not interested. Say that you'd rather be friends than anything else. and to top it all off, add this "If you really liked/loved me, you wouldn't make me go through what i'm going through now." xD okay, so my advice isn't the best, but i tried. ^^ hoped it help... somehow
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| writer4girlz | Date: Friday, 2009-05-08, 6:09 Am | Message # 3 |
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| I agree, you should just confront him before things get out of control. If you really hate him, break it off so that both you and him can move on and it may be hard to tell him off, but you have to do it so that you both can be happy in the future since if it keeps going on, it will both hurt both you and him. So just confront him. It may be hard at first, but you'll feel better afterward. Just don't regret it.
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| redevilgurl | Date: Friday, 2009-06-19, 9:00 PM | Message # 4 |
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| i think you should do wat those other girls say but in daylight hours and remember to be in a somewhat crowded place because there are some people who get violent and physical and those are the dumb ones 
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| canorus2x | Date: Monday, 2009-08-03, 0:27 Am | Message # 5 |
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| The truth is harsh, but it is the best.
Be blunt. The main thing is: Don't be afraid to confront them and hurt their feelings. If they know your feelings about them, and about this situation they'll get over it, no matter how obsessed they are with you. (: Just make sure you don't insult them. If all else fails, carry a wooden bat with you and some pepper spray, get some facial surgery, and change your identity.
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| britney1202 | Date: Thursday, 2009-09-03, 3:58 Am | Message # 6 |
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| ah. This type of guy is hard to get risk of...In my opinion just ignore him....But could it be you will fallen for him some days ha ha ha..Because you have used to his present..If he's not there anymore, I think that you'll start to miss his appearance
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| squeeke | Date: Monday, 2009-09-07, 2:11 Am | Message # 7 |
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| I would definatly confront him and tell him what you just stated about how what he does annoys you. I think that if you know you dont particularly like him then you should just tell him that instead of leading him on.
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| cubanita | Date: Monday, 2009-10-05, 2:49 Am | Message # 8 |
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| Well, first: are you sure you don't like him anymore? If you are then straight out tell him that you don't need him hanging to you like bubble gum stuck on a nerds foot...(don't have to be mean) and if that doesnt work, avoid him at all costs...trust me...IT WORKS..... i've don't it to guys that just wouldn't leave me alone...don't talk, look or have any type of contact...simply IGNORE him even if he does everything to get your attention...how old are you...cuz this reminds me of the youngin days...good times.... Anyway if you anwsered yes to the first question then ignore everthing i said and try to see if he really is for you... pros and cons that type of thing
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| minikimbie | Date: Sunday, 2010-01-10, 1:17 Am | Message # 9 |
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| i would be honest and lay out the facts very logically. i would tell him in person
around other people but not where other people can hear.
say you want him to stop interfering with your life tell him that one sided things aren't good for either party but DONT burn bridges, you might need him as a friend later. also don't let it bother you too much.
you might be fueling his actions as well as your own anger
firstly calm down and settle it in a neutral non-flashy way in every argument you have to find something that the other person can relate to, so they don't feel hurt
or think your selfish. but most of all they will listen to you. for example if you say why it might be good for him to leave you alone he'd probably listen. You can't expect some one to listen to you if you're only thinking about yourself. you might dislike the guy, but he's still a person. this is all IMO. But i hope it helps. You know the situation better than any of us here, remember this is only advice! Good luck and i hope you end up happy 
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